In that year I’ve watched you grow taller, more confident and learn more with each passing day. Your interests have changed, your sense of humour is cheekier and you are a fantastic, compassionate big brother to your sister (when you’re not scrapping and teasing each other).
And today, your sports day, the sun shone. I was hoping it would. We parents, grandparents and loved ones gathered around the yard, chatting with excitement.
You and your classmates filed out, took a seat and scanned the crowd for those familiar faces, lighting up when you saw them. You waved, gave us the thumbs up and proudly told your friends you’d seen your dad.
That morning, we’d told you to try your best and not worry about winning. You, like me, are fiercely competitive so we worried you’d be sad if you didn’t come first.
We needn’t have. Because you tried your best at everything with a smile on your face. From bean bag balancing to running races, you tried your hardest.
One of the loveliest things was seeing you with your friends, observing those friendships, hearing you laugh together. Just so happy.
And that’s all I ever want from you and for you. Try hard and be happy (showing a lot of kindness along the way).
You make us prouder than I can ever say and watching you grow, change and learn is a privilege.
Well done darling boy.